Flow vs. resistance: If you’re trying to “make” something happen in your life right now and it feels like sooooo much effort, that nothing is going as hoped – this is the time to “find the flow” and move away from the resistance.
My wisdom teacher taught me that our inner guidance (intuition, Spirit, or whatever you’d like to call it) is always there to help, but we must ask for help. So pause and make some time and space to be quiet. And then listen. Perhaps ask a question, for example, “Show me the perfect path to X” or “Is this the time to pause or to shift my goal?” The data may come to you right away in words or pictures. Perhaps you dream about it later that night or week. Maybe you overhear a conversation that sparks an idea. Figure out how your inner guidance speaks to you and then listen.